Caring at Christmas: 7 Signs Your Elderly Loved One Might Need Extra Support

If you’re planning a visit to a senior loved one over the holidays, keep an eye out for subtle changes that might indicate they need a little extra support. Here are some key red flags to watch for this festive season:

1. Empty fridge or expired food

A peek in the fridge or pantry can be revealing. Are shelves bare or filled with out-of-date items? If meals are being skipped or nutrition overlooked, it might signal challenges with mobility, memory, or motivation. Does your relative need a bit of extra help with shopping and food preparation? 

2. Unpaid bills or household disrepair

Are unopened envelopes stacking up, or is the home looking less tidy than usual? It’s not uncommon for older adults to struggle with financial management, daily cleaning, and general housekeeping, especially during colder months. Changes in the state of the home can indicate that a loved one is struggling to cope. Check for unpaid bills, which can lead to difficulties with heating—a critical concern this time of year. 

3. Weight loss or frailty

Does your loved one seem thinner or weaker than before? Noticeable weight loss could point to underlying health issues, difficulty cooking, or a lack of appetite. Even a slight change in physical strength can increase the risk of falls during winter, so it’s essential to take action if you notice a difference. 

4. Difficulty managing medications

Pillboxes can tell a story. Missed doses, confusion over prescriptions, or unused medication might indicate struggles with routine tasks. Many families in Dudley have turned to professional carers for support with medication management to ensure their loved ones stay safe and take medication safely and as prescribed. 

5. Changes in personal care or clothing

Does their usual appearance seem neglected? Poor hygiene, mismatched outfits, or inappropriate clothing for the weather may signal difficulty with personal care. With frosty Dudley winters, this can be a serious concern, as inadequate clothing increases health risks. A decline in personal care can be a warning sign that an older person needs more support, which needs to be approached with sensitivity and dignity. 

6. Social withdrawal or mood changes

Does your relative seem less engaged or more withdrawn? A mood or social activity decline can stem from isolation, health challenges or the development of dementia. Age UK has found that seniors benefit greatly from companionship, whether from family, friends, or professional carers. If your loved one is getting out and about as much as they were, it could be a cause for concern. 

7. Safety hazards in the home

Take a walk through their living space. Are there loose rugs, poor lighting, or cables that could be trip hazards? Check for recent injuries or bruises from trips, falls or bumps and ensure the home is risk-free to prevent hospitalisation. 

How Home Instead Dudley & Sandwell South Can Help

We offer personalised care services to support your loved one’s unique needs. Whether it’s a helping hand with daily tasks, medication reminders, personal care or simply a friendly face to brighten their day, we’re here to make a difference.

Our local Care Professionals are familiar with the Dudley area and understand the specific challenges faced by residents, from navigating icy pavements, keeping homes warm and safe to connecting residents with local social events.