‘Tis the Season for Caring: How to Spot Signs Elderly Loved Ones May Need Extra Support

Here are some signs to look out for:

1. Bare Cupboards or Expired Food

Peek into the fridge and cupboards. Are shelves unusually bare, or are there expired groceries?
These could signal:

– Difficulty shopping due to mobility issues or memory loss.

– A lack of motivation to prepare meals.

– Forgetfulness leading to missed shopping trips or poor planning.

A well-stocked kitchen is essential for proper nutrition, so it’s worth checking to ensure they’re eating healthily and regularly or if they need more home help. 

2. Missed Appointments or a Disorganised Calendar

Take a look at their diary or calendar. Are there signs of missed appointments or jumbled notes?
This may point to:

– Early signs of memory decline or confusion.

– Feeling overwhelmed by managing schedules.

– A growing sense of isolation or lack of confidence in going out.

Missed medical appointments or a lack of social engagements can have long-term effects on their health and happiness, so perhaps they need a gentle nudge in the right direction. 

3. Changes in Hygiene or Appearance

If your loved one seems less groomed than usual or is wearing unwashed or mismatched clothing, it could indicate struggles with daily tasks.
This might be due to:

– Physical challenges like reduced mobility or pain.

– Low energy or motivation caused by depression.

– Cognitive issues affecting their ability to manage personal care.

Approach this topic with sensitivity, as changes in hygiene can be a sign they’re finding life more difficult and assistance with personal care.

4. Cluttered or Unsafe Living Space

Is their home tidy and organised, or are there piles of clutter, unwashed dishes, or signs of neglect?
This could indicate:

– Struggles with household chores due to mobility or strength.

– Cognitive challenges making it hard to stay on top of cleaning.

– Risks of trips or falls due to hazards like loose rugs or poor lighting.

An unsafe environment could lead to accidents or hospitalisation, so it’s important to ensure their home is safe and comfortable.

5. Medication Confusion

Check their medications. Are prescriptions left unopened, doses missed, or pillboxes mixed up?
This might happen because of:

– Cognitive challenges or memory lapses.

– Difficulty managing a complex medication schedule.

– Lack of support with daily routines.

Medication mismanagement can have serious health consequences, so it’s crucial to address any signs of confusion and seek help if needed. 

6. Changes in Mood or Social Behaviour

Are they more withdrawn, irritable, or anxious? Do they seem uninterested in activities they once enjoyed?
These shifts could stem from:

– Loneliness or social isolation, particularly during the colder months.

– Anxiety about their health or ability to cope.

– Depression or other emotional challenges.

Mood changes can also be linked to cognitive decline or even more complex conditions like dementia, so it’s worth keeping an eye out for persistent shifts in behaviour.

How We Can Help

At Home Instead Lancaster, we understand that every family is unique. Our compassionate Care Professionals provide tailored services, from assistance with daily tasks to friendly companionship and medication management. With a focus on dignity and independence, we work with families to create care plans that fit seamlessly into daily life.